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Life doesn’t have to be perfect, It just needs to be exemplary worth it ☻

Until you cross the bridge of your insecurities, You can’t begin to explore your possibilities. -Tim Fargo

Heed life’s red flags and encompass it.  Life is not equally great for everyone. It would be statistically impossible for everyone to have the same amount or even close to same amount of luck. Yeah! needless to say I agree with it hence, not completely.  Some people are born pretty lucky whereas others are born under the misery of life. “Why?” most people get so tied up with this question that they wallow too much until they become shady and doomed. These people should quit the habit of asking themselves ” Why?” and start swapping it with “What options are there?” to attract waves of possibilities, stability and fortune.

“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.” – Winston Churchill

What makes the lucky ones luckier? They have a positive mindset. 

When you’re trying to motivate yourself, appreciate the fact that you’re even thinking about making a change, and as you move forward, allow yourself to be good enough -Alice Domar

Overlap negativity with positivity. We may perceive them to be innately fortunate but what we fail to recognize is that these people has their own emotional battles, tangled hurdles they discreetly fight, behind those close doors. It may look perfectly knitted, almost convincing that we hardly see a tiny flaw but reality check?NO man is ever free of turmoils. No man has a perfect life. These people just mastered the art of dealing with life’s cruel ways and replacing it with workable patterns that will allow them to overcome and succeed. They know how to appreciate the beauty of failure by embracing it with openness that in turn transforms them into a better and bolder individual they never thought of becoming. 

“You are the sum total of everything you’ve ever seen, heard, eaten, smelled, been told, forgot–it’s all there. Everything influences each of us, and because of that I try to make sure that my experiences are positive.” Maya Angelou

Assess to De-stress. How are we ever going to deal with it… easily? Of couuuurse. There are no shortcuts, no easy way to deal but we always have the freedom of choice to live life according to our own will. I have been thru a lot of roller coaster rides, landslides, name it! (lol! joking aside) I have also reached to a point where I was on my lowest of low, deepest of deep, and was emotionally subdued. I was confused about what I wanted to do with my life and for some reason I had some situations wherein I was chasing a dream that doesn’t want to be chased, doesn’t want to be owned. For a short time, I was doomed and lost. Alongside, people thought I was doing  great, that i appear witty, happy (just because someone smiles and laugh a lot, doesn’t mean the person is genuinely happy. Trust me on that!) People perceive me as someone sturdy and stable, they think that I can surpass every bit of circumstance that may arise. Yeah! I am and I can but… even Titanic”, the so-called ship that doesn’t sink.. sank. I started seeking advice’s online, like self- help motivational blogs and E-books which helped me get thru. As I ponder thru my journey in life, I have learned a lot from the experiences I had and realized that all of it was a mere preparation to a better life. I realized that when we are emotionally and mentally troubled, (someone who doesn’t know how to cope with the negativity) We might undertake a series of perpetual relapses deterring us to see the light at the end of the tunnel. (Lucky to say it didn’t and will never happen to me lol) Whereas, when we appreciate the beauty of life, have the right amount of positive mindset, are grateful no matter what the circumstance is, we remain rewarded, unfazed, more determined to improve and enrich our areas of existence.

Each emotion is distinguished not by its function, but by the adaptive challenges of the situation in which it is useful”.  -Randolph M. Nesse      

Lighten up and make each day worth living. Slow down and loosen up. The things that we worry about today may not be the same things that we will be worrying in the future. Take baby steps in dealing with life’s cruelty and without a doubt we will encompass any hurdles that may attack us along the way. Smile often, Laugh regularly and don’t get so caught up with things. Be grateful for each new day, for each blessing, for each circumstance. Be fearless, Be bold and surround yourself with positive people. Enjoy your existence, your pain, your happiness for its a living proof that you’re alive. Don’t deprive yourself of things that you might regret of not doing. Take risks, test the waters, go with the flow, give love, appreciate the scenery. Simply enjoy and do what truly makes you happy. Pray and believe that whatever you desire will be given accordingly. Enjoy the pleasure that comes with it rather than steering away from it and eventually regretting it. ☺

Resolve to be thyself: and know, that he who finds himself, loses his misery. -Matthew Arnold

I dedicate this post to the people who seeks self-help advices or to anyone who would find this post interesting and inspiring. If you ever liked my post. I would appreciate a feedback from you. Thank you! ☻



Prei is a Zamboangueña, residing in Cebu City. A Registered Nurse by Profession but currently works as a Fraud Banker. Prei can speak fluent English, Bisaya, Tagalog, Chavacano (Broken Spanish derived from the Spanish Creole) and a little bit of German (currently on B2 level). She loves photography, travel, culture diversity, and is very much hooked on fitness 💁🏼

10 thoughts on “Life doesn’t have to be perfect, It just needs to be exemplary worth it ☻

  1. Hi from adkinsdomain, your off to a great start! Your writing is very personable and I can tell you really enjoy it, which is great. I would suggest maybe adding some more pictures, especially if your going to be writing about traveling and such, but you may already have been planning on that. Keep blogging!

    1. hiii! i really appreciate the feedback 🙂 yeah i have been planning about it. its just overwhelming hahaha and i was tryong to figure out how i would have readers to read my blog because at first it seems like i was alone here hahhah 🙂

      1. For sure. I would highly suggest joining blogging groups, there’s some great ones of fb. Also create social media accounts for you blog and follow other bloggers to create community. Twitter has been great for me.

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